Mortgage Advice to Help You Through a Separation

Lee Welbanks • May 29, 2024

With the latest stats claiming that about half of marriages end in divorce and with around three-quarters of Canadians being homeowners, it’s important to know how to handle your mortgage if you decide to separate. Here’s a quick list of things to consider.


Keep making your payments.


A mortgage is a legally binding contract between you and the lender. It doesn’t take marriage into account. If your name appears on the mortgage, you're responsible for making sure the regular payments are made. A marital breakdown does not give you an excuse not to make your mortgage payments.


If, during your marriage, you've relied on your spouse to make the mortgage payments and you aren’t certain payments are being made after separating, it's in your best interest to contact the lender directly to verify your mortgage is being paid. If payments aren't being made, it could affect your credit score or worse; the lender could start foreclosure proceedings.


There is always a financial cost to break your mortgage.


When working through how to split your finances, you decided to either refinance your mortgage, remove someone from the title, or sell the property, keep in mind that you will incur legal costs.


If you’re in the middle of a term, the penalty for breaking your mortgage might be significant, especially if you have a fixed-rate mortgage. It’s certainly worth contacting your mortgage lender directly to verify the cost of breaking your mortgage. Having that information accessible when writing out your separation agreement will provide increased clarity.


Listing your marital status as separated or divorced.


When completing a mortgage application for securing new mortgage financing, when you list your marital status as separated or divorced, you can expect that a lender will want to see your legal separation agreement or your divorce papers. The lender wants to make sure you aren’t responsible for support payments. So if you haven’t finalized the paperwork, expect delays in securing mortgage financing. 


It could be harder to qualify for a new mortgage.


With the separation of assets also comes the separation of incomes. If you qualified for your existing mortgage on a double income, you might find it hard to maintain the same quality of lifestyle post-separation.


This is where careful planning comes in. Working closely with your independent mortgage professional will ensure you understand exactly where you stand. You’ll want to put together a plan for how to handle the mortgage on the matrimonial home.


Purchasing the matrimonial home from your ex.


There are special considerations given to people going through a separation to buy out the matrimonial home. Instead of looking at the transaction like a refinance where you can only borrow up to 80% of the property’s value, lenders will consider one spouse buying out the other up to a 95% loan to value ratio. This comes in handy when dividing assets and liabilities.


Navigating the ins and outs of mortgage financing isn’t something you have to do alone. If you're going through a separation and you’d like to discuss all your mortgage options, please connect anytime. It would be a pleasure to walk you through the process.

Lee Welbanks

Smart Steps to Get Your Home Market-Ready

By Lee Welbanks • July 29, 2026
Thinking About Selling Your Home? Start With These 3 Key Questions Selling your home is a major move—emotionally, financially, and logistically. Whether you're upsizing, downsizing, relocating, or just ready for a change, there are a few essential questions you should have answers to before you list that "For Sale" sign. 1. How Will I Get My Home Sale-Ready? Before your property hits the market, you’ll want to make sure it puts its best foot forward. That starts with understanding its current market value—and ends with a plan to maximize its appeal. A real estate professional can walk you through what similar homes in your area have sold for and help tailor a prep plan that aligns with current market conditions. Here are some things you might want to consider: Decluttering and removing personal items Minor touch-ups or repairs Fresh paint inside (and maybe outside too) Updated lighting or fixtures Professional staging Landscaping or exterior cleanup High-quality photos and possibly a virtual tour These aren’t must-dos, but smart investments here can often translate to a higher sale price and faster sale. 2. What Will It Actually Cost to Sell? It’s easy to look at the selling price and subtract your mortgage balance—but the real math is more nuanced. Here's a breakdown of the typical costs involved in selling a home: Real estate agent commissions (plus GST/HST) Legal fees Mortgage discharge fees (and possibly a penalty) Utility and property tax adjustments Moving expenses and/or storage costs That mortgage penalty can be especially tricky—it can sometimes be thousands of dollars, depending on your lender and how much time is left in your term. Not sure what it might cost you? I can help you estimate it. 3. What’s My Plan After the Sale? Knowing your next step is just as important as selling your current home. If you're buying again, don’t assume you’ll automatically qualify for a new mortgage just because you’ve had one before. Lending rules change, and so might your financial situation. Before you sell, talk to a mortgage professional to find out what you’re pre-approved for and what options are available. If you're planning to rent or relocate temporarily, think about timelines, storage, and transition costs. Clarity and preparation go a long way. The best way to reduce stress and make confident decisions is to work with professionals you trust—and ask all the questions you need. If you’re thinking about selling and want help mapping out your next steps, I’d be happy to chat anytime. Let’s make a smart plan, together.
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Debt Cosolidation Strategy

By Lee Welbanks • July 22, 2026
How to Get Out of Debt Faster Debt has a way of quickly spiralling out of control, particularly if you face one of life’s most common financial obstacles – such as job loss/wage reduction, separation/divorce or illness/death. But, fortunately, there are debt-reduction strategies available to get you out of debt quicker and remain debt free! One popular debt-reduction strategy tackles your smallest debt balances first before moving up the chain to pay off larger ones. When the smallest debt is paid in full, you roll the minimum payment you were making on that debt into the next-smallest debt payment. Here’s how it works in bite-sized steps: Record your debts from smallest to largest regardless of interest rate Make minimum payments on all your debts except the smallest one Pay as much as possible on your smallest debt Repeat until each debt is paid in full Focus on outstanding balances, not interest rates If your largest debt has the largest interest rate, it’s going to be a long time before you even see a dent in that crazy balance of yours. But when you stick to the smallest balance plan, you’re going to feel a true sense of accomplishment as you pay off that debt super quick. That excitement is what’s going to motivate you to keep working hard until you’re completely out of debt. This debt strategy is effective because it’s all about changing your behaviour. And once you see positive results, you’re more encouraged to stay the course until you’re out of debt. Example Let’s say you have four different debts: $500 dental bill – $50 payment $2,500 credit card debt – $63 payment $7,000 car loan – $135 payment $10,000 student loan – $96 payment Using this debt strategy, you make minimum payments on everything except the $500 dental bill. Since you’re paying $550 a month on the dental bill (the $50 minimum payment plus the extra $500), that debt is completely gone in one month. Now you can take the freed-up $550 and attack your credit card debt, paying a total of $613 ($550 plus the $63 minimum payment). In about four months, you’ll be waving goodbye to that credit card debt too! Next, you’ll tackle the car loan to the tune of $748 a month ($613 plus $135). In 10 months, you’ll be driving a vehicle you actually own. By the time you reach that dreaded student loan (your biggest debt), you can put $844 a month towards it. That means you’ll be making your final payment in just 12 months. With all your hard work and sacrifice, throwing extra money into your debt strategy and staying focused on the goal, you’ll have paid off $20,000 in just 27 months! Wondering if this is the right debt strategy for you? I’m always here to help. Answers are a call or email away.